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Memoirs of a lost love…

FROM THE DIARY OF A DECEASED..

She had a shining future waiting for her at the doorstep..

But she still felt shallow, coz he never realized her significance..

A life distorted..

Since, she just couldn’t sort it..

What mattered the most to her, was nowhere to be found in his priority list..

A few moments before she was taking her last breath..

She told him how much she loved him..

Still wondering! Only if he knew that he had snatched away all her reasons for living..

There was no pain and no grief to be seen on their faces..

But, just a numbness in senses that pervaded all their phases..

He claimed to be too bored, listening to her for over the years,

that he couldn’t resist shouting on top of his lungs..

She was too dumbstruck to figure out what went so fucking wrong on her part..

The last thing he did was to throw her out of his life, like a mere piece of trash..

Little did he knew the deeper implications of his self-centered acts..

The next best thing he unmistakably invited for himself,

Was a lifetime of regrets waiting for him ahead..

So many broken dreams were lying there on the floor, a million of shattered hopes, that still echoed..

The only thing she longed for, all this while was to get a time machine..

So that she could go back and edit the phase when she lost him..

But alas, she was no Cinderella or snow-white to witness a miracle in her life..

She was just a common girl, who, on her departure, had learnt the bitter truth of real life..

That unlike a fairytale, not all stories have a happy ending and love alone doesn’t suffice, when it comes to real life merry-making.

She could only thank him for showing her the world for real..

For letting her overcome her fears..

And for breaking all her myths that had been long protecting her…

Who would have ever thought that, they, who were once considered an epitome of everlasting togetherness,

would one day end up stabbing each others back and cursing one another to the worst form of death..!!

The art of “Decision-making”…

Decision – making :  is it as easy as choosing a flavour of candy..!!??

No one is born perfect, neither you, nor me.

We all, find ourselves stuck in the dilemmas. We all keep wondering…
What was it that could take us to the heights?
Why, at one point of time , there comes a phase punching a whole new questionnaire onto the person’s face?
“Do we all discover our real self?
If it had been so, there wouldn’t have been too much of chaotic lives..

We often think that just passing the exams would do for the 9th graders, choosing the arts, commerce or science stream is just as easy as to what interests the person. But life is so much more than just getting into a stream, within your dimensions of comfort or setting the perfect style statement. As we grow, we realize that, an even important aspect than choosing the style or the colour is the selection of the right size of the shoe to fit in. Unfortunately, its right then, that many of us land ourselves in the troublesome situations.

It’s An iota of doubts..
A questionnaire of thoughts…
Just when we come across such a situation when we have to make a bigger, life changing decision.

It is okay not to be a fully equipped individual. After all, that’s what makes us human.
But what sets us apart, in this fast-changing world, is our ability, backed by our willingness, to develop a knack of making wise and yielding decisions, which have deeper impacts in the long run.

It’s because, we all can fight with the world, if anyone dares to wrong us.
But how do we fight with our own selves?
To whom do we complain, when we face regrets for our own bad decisions?

Worse is that, the repercussions of the wrong decisions often render people quiet.
Fighting within themselves, they often turn rebellious and geared up with vengeance.
Isn’t it funny, how time alone changes so many definitions that humans set up for themselves?

We all make mistakes while carrying out our daily chores. Every second person defaults in the normal course of life. some try to become better beings, while some give up their hopes that easily and commit suicide.

Do we ever consider the in-depth consequences of making any wrong decision?
What about our Soul-conscience?
Does it ever stop us from correcting our mistakes and becoming a better person?

They say –
“it’s never too late to mend.

But for a fact, fewer are the ones who realize the value of the lost moments.
So, it’ better that we start analyzing the situations beforehand and proceed cautiously before entering into any sorts of agreements, be it with the other person or the one made to our own selves.

A pragmatic approach towards things and a calm psyche, open to accept the changes arising out of dynamism are an integral part of this whole process. Hence, being able to take the effective decisions is a subjugated yet a very pressing want of time. For he, who is able to differentiate between the good and the bad, is way ahead of everyone else, who is still busy counting the number of probabilities that lie ahead.

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The power of “self-expression”….

Self-expression is about uncovering the soulful power within. It is about being the very best we can be. It is about us, and it has nothing to do with anyone else’s power.. The importance of self-expression is that, it keeps our mind clear and content and frees our heart from any sorts of inhibitions or heaviness, that might have been there, had we not been able to reveal or express, what we had been actually feeling, deep within.

Authentic expression is not about trying to impress others. It is about being ourselves in our fullness, because that is when we are able to reduce or bring down our dependency on others, to the extent, that we can at least, request/ demand something we want or expect from the other person or take a stand for ourselves, while facing contravention from the other end.

Such is the effect of authentic personal power and magnetism. There is power in being ourselves to the fullest. No one can give that to us, nor can they take it away or do it for us. It is ours. It lives inside us. It can be grown, cultivated and developed. It is this power of self-expression alone, that helps us rise above the tough situations and facilitates communication.

For instance, a child who abstains the company of his father, would, in no way, be ever comfortable to ask him anything if he doesn’t come up with what he exactly feels about him. He would never be able to convey/reveal his pent-up feelings that have been long concealed, for the simple, enough reason that he himself, never really took a step forward to show his personal grudges or unexplored set of emotions, whatsoever.

What holds us back from full self-expression? Shyness. Fear of being judged. Fear of making a fool of ourselves. Fear of failure. Fear of rejection. We keep peeling the layers of the onion and going deeper until we get to our core beliefs, ways of thinking about ourselves that developed when we were very young, and which, in the present day scenario, have a zero, or minimal relativity.

People who are not able to express themselves, tend to suffer, in more than one way. They are not just considered mischievous, but also the ones involved in plotting conspiracies.

While, on the other hand, people also face setbacks in the form of regrets that often last a lifetime, and a form of social disconnect they often witness, on account of their precedent reticent behaviours. In later stages, this also takes the person to a psychological level of frustration and suffocation, since there is so much at his end, which he is supposed to tackle alone and deal from within, himself.

Are you tired of playing small, feeling insignificant? Will you be the best you can be or not? It is that simple. Of course, the question then becomes, who are you? The journey is about self-discovery and self-expression.

Embark on it. Embrace it. Dive into it. Trust. Your quest will be supported.

Be expressive!! Let go of all your worries!! Be at peace!!

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The relationship pyramid…

It's a "Fibonacci" style of poetry, wherein the word 
count remains stagnant for first time and then it
increases with subsequent lines, so as to ensure that 
the number of words in each line correspond to the 
number of row they are placed in, so as to give 
it an effect of a pyramid. Hope you all enjoy. 🙂

love

lust

awful lies

losing ones trust

tolerance begins to fade away

what’s left in the end is just a heartache.

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It’s valentine’s day…

Valentine’s week is around the corner,

Once, more a season of love..

The hearts beating close to each other,

Making soulful confessions to their loved ones..

Once more, there would be a boom of teddies,

Chocolates and roses would be accompanying the solitaire rings..

Hugs and kisses would be freely flowing through the streets,

As an expression of people’s affectionate feelings..

Once more, the colourful balloons would fill up the clear skies,

The violin strings will again leave the listener’s, tranquilized..

The pious love will once more bloom in its full swing,

Spreading cheers around, and leaving everyone, delighted..

Tearful smiles and snapshots of moments would once more, build up the atmosphere,

The budding relationships will once again bring together, the ones who are made for each other..

Valentine’s week is around the corner,

Once, more a season of love..!!

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Fear..

One of my first ever compositions based on the 
pattern of "Cinquain" style of poetry. :)

fear
driving force
restraining , abstaining , worrying
killing opportunities , yielding nothing
dismay

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